Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter. Sometimes the dispute is so intense that it even causes the girlfriend to block her. Faced with this situation, how should boys deal with it? Suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Think calmly
When your girlfriend blocks you, the first thing to do is to calm down and don’t act impulsively. Emotions can get out of control during a fight, but now it's happened and you can't change it no matter how much you regret it. Therefore, thinking calmly is the first step to solving the problem.
Recall the reasons and process of the quarrel, and find out your own mistakes and shortcomings. Only by recognizing your own problems and being willing to take the initiative to correct them can you regain your girlfriend's trust.
2. Reflect on oneself
On the basis of calm thinking, it is essential to reflect on oneself. Quarrels are often both parties' fault, not just one person's fault. Review your words and actions during the quarrel to see if there was anything that was excessive or hurtful to the other person.
If you find that you have indeed made a mistake, you must have the courage to admit it and apologize to your girlfriend. A sincere apology shows her that you care about her and that you feel sorry for her, and is the first step in reconnecting with her.
3. Give space
After a fight, your girlfriend may need some time to cool down. At this time, the boy should give her enough space and time. Don't disturb or pester her too often to avoid burdening her.
Respect her decision and don't try to forcefully restore the relationship. If she needs time to think, give her time; if she needs distance, give her distance. Only wait until her mood stabilizes before further communication.
4. Active communication
When the girlfriend calms down, the boy can take the initiative to communicate with her. Choose an appropriate time and method, such as face-to-face or writing a letter to express your thoughts and true inner feelings.
In communication, you should express your opinions and wishes candidly, and at the same time, listen to your girlfriend's thoughts and feelings. Respect each other's opinions and find solutions to problems. Only through sincere communication can trust and understanding be re-established.
5. Actions speak louder than words
In addition to verbal apologies and promises, boys should also prove their changes through actions. Words can sound nice, but only practical actions can touch your girlfriend's heart.
According to the reason for the quarrel, actively correct your shortcomings and show a positive side. For example, if the quarrel is because you don't care enough about the other person, then take the initiative to care about her life and emotions; if the quarrel is because of financial issues, then work hard to make money.
Only by proving your changes through practical actions can your girlfriend see your value and charm again.
6. Be patient
Rebuilding trust takes time and patience. Even if you have put in a lot of effort, you cannot rush for success. It may take your girlfriend longer to accept your changes and re-establish trust.
During this process, boys must remain patient and persistent. Don't give up easily, and don't be discouraged by your girlfriend's indifference or distance. Only by persisting can you finally win her trust and regain her heart.
It is a common situation to have a fight and be blocked by your girlfriend, but it does not mean that the relationship is over. By thinking calmly, reflecting on yourself, giving space, communicating proactively, actions speak louder than words, and being patient, guys can reconnect with their girlfriends and repair damaged relationships.
