In my opinion, communication is very necessary if you want a long-term marriage, so if you encounter a marriage where you can't communicate, let it go! Today I'm going to talk to you about marriage.
1. Is there love in marriage?
Answer: Yes, in Chinese-style marriage and love relationships, What is more important in most marriages is not love, but 'money, car, house, and household registration' (the house must be in a school district). When your elders meet you, they will not ask you "Are you happy with this person?" but will ask you "What is this person's family situation like and how much money can he earn?"
2. How to make marriage better? Happiness
Answer: The most important factor that can make the whole family stable and happy is that the couple can grow together, tolerate each other, and have emotional stability.
3. Is marriage the grave of love?
Answer: No. Not entirely, because only a marriage that doesn't know how to give love and don't know how to correctly ask for emotional needs will bury love.
4. What are the needs of men and women in marriage?
Answer: Men’s basic emotional needs in marriage [trust, acceptance, encouragement, recognition, adoration, appreciation] when they are needed When married and recognized, they will become more positive and upward, more responsible, and actively assume their obligations within marriage.
Women’s basic emotional needs in marriage [care, understanding, respect, safety, consideration, loyalty] When they are cared for and valued by others, they will become gentle and considerate, more independent and confident.
5. How to stop quarreling
Answer: The best way to stop quarreling is for men to learn how to [Listen to the other party and take care of the other party's needs], you can say this → Don't worry, speak slowly, I am listening carefully.
When women learn to [recognize each other and tolerate each other’s shortcomings], they will say this sentence → This is a good thing, it is not your fault.
6. Are poor and humble couples in trouble?
Answer: A marriage without the ability to plan wealth = the slow death of the relationship. Why the car box office is so important!!!
Housing → One of the most basic sources of security.
Car → determines the breadth and quality of social interaction.
Vote → The confidence of both parties to resist risks.
Two people can have nothing when they get married; but if they do not know how to accumulate and create a family that obtains these marriage necessities, they will probably not be happy.
7. Can you change someone if you are dissatisfied with the other person?
Answer: You cannot forcefully change anyone. Don't stand on the high point of "I'm good for you" and make decisions for the other person. A good partner must not come by being demanding, but by constantly guiding the other person to realize that they need to achieve better things for the sake of marriage.Own.
8. If you suddenly find out that your partner is cheating, should you divorce?
Answer: Cheating is not a sudden whim of either party in the marriage. It is very dangerous for a person to break through the moral bottom line and choose to cheat. To a large extent, the need cannot be satisfied in this marriage. You can't expect a person to be loyal to you forever. When you can't meet the other person's needs for a long time, the other person will not be far from cheating.
If you have any other facts about marriage, please feel free to add them in the comment area.
